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[–]SerpentValyrian[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children). My mother asked me not to tell him - ever. He’s been the moodiest since the holidays have started (he’s been this way since my Gma died, with the holidays) so I almost don’t want her to tell him now when he’s already pissy at any little thing but there’s never really a right time to tell someone this. This video features 3 true horror stories sure to scare you. Key differences shed light on the brutality of slavery. I'm going to confirm that my 3 y/o daughter is actually my genetic daughter, just to be sure ;). 2.9k. [–]Poptech -3 points-2 points-1 points 2 years ago (2 children), [–]Doogle89 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (15 children). He just turned 4 and... we're keeping a very close eye. [–]moorethanafeeling 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children). I'm not in the same situation - my mom never lied to me, and she already had me when she met my dad. But no matter how horrible some men can be, it's physically impossible for us to achieve this level of deceitfulness. [+]Poptech comment score below threshold-10 points-9 points-8 points 2 years ago (6 children). Both Dads could be hurt by the truth. UPDATE: Turns out my dad did know it was a possibility I wasn't his. [–]GraceStrangerThanYou 12 points13 points14 points 2 years ago (0 children). I am second guessing everything I know at this point. This information is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for medical advice. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Be Civil. We only provide general information, which may be misleading for your individual circumstances. As it stands, we're the evil ones for saying it's not right. [–]Poptech -3 points-2 points-1 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]peppermintplant 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (1 child). [–]lipss106 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (5 children). This new found information is never easy for anyone. We shared blood types, features, and personality traits. In France, you could face a fine of around $4,000 USD for taking one. The only point I was trying to make is that in the eyes of the law, the man who raised you is your father, not a step parent. She is appearing on "Dr. Oz" this Wednesday Oct. 3rd if you or your mom are interested. Blehhhhh... sorry to rant, I just know what it feels like to love someone so much but to feel like to keep them happy, you should just pretend you know nothing. I’m in the process of getting my PhD in biology/engineering and I have a heavy genetics background. I still let her tell the story as she wanted though, but took it with a grain of salt. [–]andieinaz 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (1 child). You can't be a "step" dad if you are legally the father. So, medical info has been very important to me. Sorry but you must be confusing me with another person. Please read this post for more detailed information/analysis on 23andMe's v3/v4 chips, as well as competitors FTDNA and AncestryDNA. My parents have always been the couple that others were jealous of, hell - even I always thought that no guy was ever right for me bc I never got along with anyone like how my parents get along. I also found out that my dad wasn't my biodad this year from 23andme. Many people use the knowledge for sex, but some use it to improve their relationship with their girlfriend or wife. Cool to finally pinpoint ! Do you want to do further? lets not forget there is another human being involved, who has emotions, and would like to know if he has a child out there. [–]rawbface 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (2 children). That's a good point. I don't know how many here are in this situation that you and I are in. I believe I cannot explore biological relatives without my dad knowing the truth. There are no recent revelations that say she cheated - the story has always been that they were separated - from multiple people besides my mother. Idk I guess I’ll just overthink this whole thing forever lol, I hope I’m kidding. This rule does not prohibit user discussion, questions, comments, mentions, etc. God bless 23 and me for finally holding women accountable. Same thing happened to me at the age of 28. Weeks go by and I’m not excited, concerned, nor do I bother to check on the process. [–]peppermintplant 14 points15 points16 points 2 years ago (0 children). A few months in, my dad did the test, and didn't show up as related... time went by, and questions stated to rise in my mind as to why he wouldn't show up as ANy relative on 23andme. I already knew my ancestry, but you can’t get the health info without it so I was along for the ride. [–]peppermintplant 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (1 child). [–]SerpentValyrian[S] 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]entropywins9 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago* (7 children). I've been in contact with this new aunt of mine, turns out she had no idea that the man who raised her wasn't her biological father. The decision was made for him to keep him in the dark. I don’t think my mom will tell him if I don’t. I'm pissed at my grandmother for not telling my mom. He is her legal father and at this point that likely can't be changed. I'm not a "support group" kind of guy but our group has been amazingly helpful! She claimed my dad had no idea, but as her story kept unraveling I realized that he would have had some idea due to the circumstances. [–]Freckled_daywalker 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children). 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